A few weeks ago I walked onto a driving range with a hand-me-down set of golf clubs and absolutely no idea what I was doing. I didn’t even know where to put my bag. I stood there for a second, quietly studying the people around me so I wouldn’t look too new. But instead of embarrassment, something else hit me—excitement, freedom, and joy, all at once. It felt good to know nothing. There was something freeing about having zero expectations of myself, starting fresh, starting from the bottom.
And it reminded me of something I’d forgotten:
Things only get boring when we stop learning.
Years ago, when I decided I wanted to become a tarpon fly angler, I was scared. Not nervous, scared. I didn’t know what it would feel like to hook an 80-plus-pound poon. I had no idea what to expect from that first eat, or whether I was even capable of doing it right. It took dozens of days over multiple trips before it finally happened. When that first big tarpon ate, and I held on for dear life… the relief that washed over me when the fear left my body was overwhelming.
That moment didn’t just make me better at tarpon fishing.
It brought the passion roaring in.
It made me feel alive.
And here’s another thing I’ve learned along the way:
learning slows down time.
When we’re doing something new, truly new, time expands. Hours feel fuller. Our senses sharpen. Our attention locks in. Our brains light up like they used to when we were kids.
But when we stop learning?
The years start slipping by faster.
Days blur together.
Everything feels familiar, predictable, safe… and eventually, dull.
I see this with anglers all the time. They fish the same river the same way for years. Same runs. Same flies. Same habits. And then one day they wake up and say, “It’s just not as fun anymore.”
But it’s not the river, it’s the lack of learning.
Because learning is what keeps us young.
Learning is what slows down the clock.
Learning is what pulls us fully into the moment, the way fishing is supposed to.
Every time I step into something new, whether it’s golf, bowhunting, tarpon fishing, or a new piece of water on a trip, I can feel that spark return. Not because I’m good at it, but because I’m NOT. Because I’m stretching, reaching, fumbling, figuring it out all over again.
That’s where passion lives.
Not in mastery - but in motion.
Not in certainty - but in discovery.
It’s the same reason our guests grow so much on trips. You can see it happen in real time. Day one, everything feels foreign - the wind, the water, the shots, the pace. By day six, they’re moving differently, thinking differently, fishing differently. Learning changes them. You can see it.
So, if you feel yourself flat-lining, if fishing feels repetitive, if your home water doesn’t light you up the way it used to, it might not be the fish. It might be that you’ve stopped learning.
Try something new.
Fish a new species.
Cast in the wind on purpose.
Switch hands.
Pick up a bow.
Pick up a golf club.
Book the trip you’ve been thinking about for years.
Do something that scares you just enough to make you pay attention again.
Because the truth is simple:
Passion follows learning. Always.
And when you’re learning, time slows down just long enough for you to actually experience it.
If you’re ready for something new - a new fishery, a new country, a new challenge, a new lesson - we’d love to help you get there. Sometimes all it takes is one step outside your comfort zone to fall back in love with the whole thing again.
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